I am feeling really anxious, lost and confused. I hate that I’ve been put in a position where I have to decide whether my happiness is worth delaying for someone else’s. It makes me feel sick to think about the fact that the person who is supposed to love me the most, only wants to make decisions that suit himself. He’s made these decisions with zero regard for my happiness and I either have to be okay with the decision or make my own decision that will hurt us both. I am so sad about it and as I sit with my sadness, I don’t know what I’m going to do.
I don’t want to do what I’m leaning towards doing. But both my options don’t feel right. My partner has just gone ahead and chosen a commercial window tinting company servicing Melbourne offices without me. I’m talking about my business partner – if that’s not obvious. He’s made this massive decision without me and I’m considering leaving the business as a result. I don’t think it’s fair of him to just choose his favourite commercial window tinting company without consulting me in any way. In fact, it’s quite insulting that he doesn’t even care about how his decisions impact me. I want to work with a business partner who treats me like an equal in our partnership. If we’re not equals, then what are we?
I wish he had chosen the office tinting company in the Melbourne area that I had recommended. My proposition was perfect for both of us. It was the middle ground. It had elements that I appreciated in commercial office tinting in addition to the elements that he so desperately needed. But alas, my proposition fell on deaf ears and my partner went ahead and made business-altering decisions without me and now I have to make decisions that are best for myself.